The Art of Forgiving


Some might consider it strange that I post this article here in a taekwondo blog like this. But the truths therein are so powerful and liberating that I would consider myself thoughtless if  I do not share.


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  1. The most creative power given to the human spirit is the power to heal the wounds of a past it cannot change.
  2. We do our forgiving alone inside our hearts and minds; what happens to the people we forgive depends on them.
  3. The first person to benefit from forgiving is the one who forgives.
  4. Forgiving happens in three stages: we rediscover the humanity of the person who wronged us; we surrender our right to get even; and we wish that person well.
  5. Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey.
  6. Forgiving does not require us to reunite with the person who broke our trust.
  7. We do not forgive because we are supposed to; we forgive when we are ready to be healed.
  8. Waiting for someone to repent before we forgive is to surrender our future to the person who wronged us.
  9. Forgiving is not a way to avoid pain but to heal the pain.
  10. Forgiving someone who breaks a trust does not mean that we give him his job back.
  11. Forgiving is the only way to be fair to ourselves.
  12. Forgivers are not doormats; to forgive a person is not a signal that we are willing to put up with what he or she does.
  13. Forgiving is essential; talking about it is optional.
  14. When we forgive, we set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner we set free is ourselves.
  15. When we forgive we walk in stride with our forgiving God.

Kindness Keeps the World Afloat


Inspiring video submitted by Eleen Wong

Paying it forward : It all starts from and leads back to one good act.
Have you made that one good act of kindness today?
Share this with friends, and let us be reminded of the simplest virtue of paying it forward! enjoy the video….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qc8ZbVcdHpg&feature=share

Passion


Another inspiring video submitted by Eleen wong

I love this message!
I have watched it over and over in the last one year. I am constantly reminded of our key drivers …. PASSION, Hard Work, Loving what We Do and having a key eye for Talent. We need good people around us so that eventually the organization we created builds a legacy. 
Powersport Taekwondo, you have awesome elements in your setting. Keep inspiring your members. Hope this video carries its message across and brings your team to the next level of success!

Eleen Wong

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuNQgln6TL0&feature=related

Impossible is Nothing


Inspiring video is submitted by Eleen Wong

Master Leong, this is an awesome message about mentoring and coaching. About overcoming our limitations, self belief and fears. I use this video to motivate my team members. Hope you enjoy it too.
In this movie, the Question asked was “Young man, what is your Deepest fear?”
The answer lies in min 3:56.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate;
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is not our darkness that most frightens us.
Our playing small does not serve the world! There is nothing enlightened about shrinking …so that other people won’t feel insecure around you?

We were all meant to shine as children!
It is not just in some of us, it is in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people the permission to do the same, as we are liberated from our own fear.
Our presence automatically liberates others.”

“To my friends and mentors, I want to say Thank you.”Eleen

Turning Point


Someone sent this short video to me. I know it has nothing to do with taekwondo…but I felt compel to share it with you. It touches my life, and I know you will surely be blessed by it too. Have a good day!